Let’s Talk Menopause: Hot Flashes, Mood Swings & More
- Dr. Nazanin Safaei, ND, MS
- Jun 27
- 4 min read

What Is Menopause?
Menopause is a natural and profound transition, a gentle closing of one chapter and the unfolding of another, marking a woman’s journey into a new phase of strength, wisdom, and self-discovery. It is a natural biological process that marks the end of a woman’s reproductive years.
Officially, it's diagnosed after 12 consecutive months without a menstrual period—typically around the age of 51 in the U.S. But the transition (called perimenopause) can begin several years earlier, often in the mid-to-late 40s.
This phase is driven by the decline in ovarian hormone production, especially estrogen and progesterone, which can affect everything from sleep and mood to bone health and cardiovascular function.
Menopausal Transition Stages
Menopause is not a sudden event, but rather a transition that occurs in stages as the ovaries gradually produce less estrogen and progesterone. While specific timelines and symptom experiences vary greatly among individuals, the menopausal transition is generally divided into three main stages:
Perimenopause: The transitional period leading up to menopause when hormone levels start to decline. Can last anywhere from a few months to 10 years, with an average of 4-8 years.
Menopause: This is a single point in time that officially marks the end of the menstrual cycles. Diagnosed after 12 months without a period.
Postmenopause: The years following menopause. Symptoms may continue, but the risk of long-term health issues (like osteoporosis and heart disease) rises.
Common Symptoms of Menopause
While every woman’s experience is unique, here are the most common symptoms:
Hot flashes and night sweats
Irregular or skipped periods
Vaginal dryness and discomfort during intercourse
Mood swings, anxiety, or depression
Sleep disturbances or insomnia
Brain fog or trouble concentrating
Weight gain, especially around the abdomen
Hair thinning or dry skin
Heart palpitations
Some women breeze through menopause with minimal symptoms, while others find it disruptive to their daily life. Either experience is valid—and manageable.
How to Thrive Through Menopause
Lifestyle and Natural Support
Balanced Diet: Focus on a whole-foods diet rich in plants
Nutrient therapy: key nutrients play a vital role in supporting bone health, mood balance, and cardiovascular health during menopause.
Exercise: Helps regulate mood, sleep, and bone density. Weight-bearing and strength training are key.
Stress Management: Mindfulness, yoga, or breathwork can ease anxiety and support hormonal balance.
Sleep Hygiene: Establish a consistent bedtime, limit screen time, and reduce caffeine and alcohol.
Herbal Medicine: Offers gentle support during menopause, helping ease symptoms like hot flashes, mood changes, and sleep disturbances for many women seeking natural relief. Discuss best options with your doctor.
Medical Options
Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT): Can significantly reduce hot flashes, mood symptoms, and bone loss. Discuss risks/benefits with your doctor.
Non-Hormonal Medications: SSRIs, SNRIs, and other options may help with mood and vasomotor symptoms.
Vaginal Estrogen: Safe and effective for local symptoms like dryness and painful intercourse. Discuss risks/benefits with your doctor.
When to See a Doctor
Seek medical support if you experience:
Very heavy or prolonged bleeding
Debilitating hot flashes or night sweats
Severe mood changes or depression
Painful sex or recurrent urinary tract infections
Concerns about osteoporosis or heart health
A licensed healthcare provider can run tests, rule out other conditions, and help personalize your treatment.
Final Thoughts
Menopause isn’t a disease—it’s a powerful transition. With the right support, knowledge, and care, you can embrace this new phase with confidence and vitality.
Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for informational and educational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider before making changes to your diet, lifestyle, or health care regimen.
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